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PaulaJean
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Posted by PaulaJean

on Mar 10, 2008

My husband lost his job the day after Christmas and has basically become a professional job interviewer.  He is really trying, but hasn't gotten any calls back.  Unfortunately, we have gotten a month behind on our house payment.  We had to file bankruptcy three years ago and just got a phone call from our attorney's office that the mortgage company is requesting a stay unless we can come up with the money in 48 hours.  Basically they want the month we are behind plus this month, or they are going to file for foreclosure.  Basically, we need about $1,700 within 48 hours.

Another issue we have is I was diagnosed with mutliple sclerosis about 2 years ago.  My medical expenses, even with insurance, have been through the roof.  I am not the type of person to ask for help.  I am working a full time job plus two contract jobs trying to keep all the bills paid until my husband can find work.  We have a two year old who doesn't deserve to end up on the street.  Any help anyone could give us would be greatly, greatly appreciated, and as soon as my husband finds work, I will proudly donate to someone else in need.

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corrinedj
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3. corrinedj posted on May 25, 2008
 Asking for help might be the only way to keep off the streets. Don't think of it as a hand out. But, an emergency with your husband out of work, cost of medical and not wanting to be on the street. What opions to you have? Weigh the pros and cons. And pride with practical solutions. Think short term could affect long term. And long term could affect short term. Think about it?
Tatianahunt
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2. Tatianahunt posted on May 24, 2008

Nice topic
Thanks
I have found two interesting sources ( http://fileshunt.com and http://filesfinds.com ) and would like to give the benefit of my experience to you.

PaulaJean
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1. PaulaJean posted on Mar 20, 2008
 in response to txclint...   

Yeah.  We tried that.  The problem is that he wasn't making enough to pay the babysitter!   Anyway, it turns out that I was being jerked around by the attorney for the mortgage company.  I was NOT behind (well, only two weeks behind) like he said.  We are in bankruptcy, and he threatened to file a stay.  Even though I wasn't behind, I had to overnight them a payment -- meaning I had to pay a mortgage bill twice in one month.  Now I'm having trouble paying everything else!

Anyway, thanks for the input.  Cross your fingers and say a prayer for us!

Paula

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